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FOR THE UPCOMING 2025
CURSILLO WEEKEND'S
Men's - September 11th - 14th, 2025
Rector - Tremain Hayhoe
Women's - October 23rd - 26th, 2025
Rectora - Mary Palmer
2025 Women's Weekend Rectora
“Have no anxiety at all, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, make your requests known to God. Then the peace of God that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:6-7
My name is Mary Palmer and I have been given the honor of being the Rectora for this year’s Women’s Cursillo, which will take place on the weekend of October 23 - 26, 2025. I have chosen the scripture quote above as the focus of the weekend.
I lived my Cursillo in the spring of 2019 and had an encounter with the Holy Spirit that has changed my life. Since then, I am constantly aware of God’s presence in my life and have learned to surrender. I surrender my troubles as well as my joys to Jesus, who always has my back. I served on the women’s team the last four years and have met so many wonderful, beautiful, holy women! I also serve the Cursillo movement as the Secretariat treasurer and occasionally sing with the band.
I am a member of Good Shepherd Parish in Elk Grove, where I have served as cantor, for 33 years. Another of my ministries that is dear to my heart is that of bringing the Eucharist to those who are homebound. What a privilege it is to carry Jesus to others!
I am married with three grown children and have recently become a grandma! It is in regard to my children and new grandson that I have truly learned to surrender. I pray for them all the time, and put them in God’s hands. He loves them more than I ever could.
Pope Francis has designated the jubilee year of 2025 as one focused on our being Pilgrims of Hope. As we go as missionary disciples to share this hope of salvation, we must surrender ourselves to the Lord as well as those to whom we minister.
Not long ago, I discovered the hymn, I Surrender All, which was first published back in 1896. This beautiful song speaks to my heart and will be our theme song for the weekend.
Please keep both the men’s and women’s teams in prayer as we begin our team formation. Share Cursillo with others. Go out and make a friend, be a friend, and bring a friend to Christ by sponsoring a candidate for the 2025 Cursillos.
DeColores!
2025 Men's Weekend Rector
Tremain Hayhoe is a devoted Catholic, serving as the Deputy Grand Knight of the Fair Oaks Knights of Columbus and an active member of St. Mel Parish. He attended his Cursillo in 2019, an experience that deepened his faith and commitment to service. This year, he is honored to lead as Rector of Cursillo and is eagerly anticipating the team formation process.
In addition to his faith-based work, Tremain is a filmmaker, producer, and entrepreneur, leading his production company Hayhoe Studios. With a passion for storytelling and cinematic visuals, he has produced a variety of projects, including commercials, corporate videos, and independent films. His dedication to high-quality production and compelling narratives continues to inspire and engage audiences. He loves coffee, tigers, laughing, watching movies, and spending time with his family, friends, and his cat MooMoo.
This powerful weekend doesn’t end on Sunday but continues throughout the life of the “Cursillista” as described by the simple term “4th day” or the “rest of your life”. We strongly encourage all Cursillistas to attend a group/friendship reunion held weekly or monthly where the concept of Cursillo is maintained and demonstrated. The key focus of the group reunions is on PRAYER, STUDY and ACTION.
Cursillo has touched the life of millions of Catholics worldwide (3 million today) and has also been duplicated by other faiths and organizations such as Catholic High Schools (Kairos), a prison ministry, Marriage Encounter, ACTS and many others. It is more than a movement; it is a personal lifestyle and it challenges each of us to a greater commitment to our common faith.
The Cursillo Movement consists of proclaiming the best news of the best reality: that God, in Christ, loves us. Communicated by the best means, which is friendship…make a friend, be a friend, bring a friend to Christ! In some ways, our purpose is to “evangelize” our own church…reignite the fire of those who need a jumpstart…
Cursillo first appeared in Spain in 1944 when the country, under the dictatorship of Francisco Franco, became a quasi-theocracy. A layman named Eduardo Bonnín participated in the early years of the "short courses" in Majorca Spain and helped develop the it to the point that it became an active renewal movement in the Church. In 1957, the movement spread to North America, when the first American Cursillo was held in Waco, Texas. In 1960 weekends were held for the first time in the eastern half of the USA. By 1981, almost all of the 160 dioceses in the United States had implemented an active Cursillo Movement. In the United States it is organized through a national office located in Jarrell, Texas.
The movement/charism is recognized by Pope Francis as member of the International Catholic Organizations of the Pontifical Council for the Laity in Rome. It is widely known throughout the church as one of the most transformational movements in the church today. The last 6 popes have stood behind it through worldwide gatherings and Vatican support. The international organizing group is still headquartered in Spain.
There is a tradition that goes along with it…A story from the early days of the movement in Spain tells of an occasion where a group of men were returning from a Cursillo weekend when their bus broke down. They began to sing De Colores, a traditional folk song. The use of the song in Cursillo took hold, and has held up as the movement has spread outside the Spanish-speaking world and to other denominations. The use of a multi-colored rooster as a symbol for the Cursillo movement is believed to have originated from one of the verses of that song. Aside from the historical traditions, Cursillo is a simple, effective way to improve your walk with Christ through Piety, Study and Action.
The Cursillo is supported by the Roman Catholic Church. It is joined to the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops and the Sacramento diocese. We have a healthy and growing community in northern California and have several small worship groups who meet each week to grow in faith and service to our Lord and our church. More than 800 people are known to have been active in the Cursillo Movement in Sacramento, although that does not account for others who have relocated here.
The Diocesan Secretariat is the final organizational structure to be established in building a Movement in a diocese. It must be emphasized that the Cursillo Movement is not an organization, but it uses some organizational elements. The Secretariat gives life to the organizational form and accelerates the total work of the Movement in three phases of its methodology: the precursillo, 3-day weekend and post cursillo.
The Diocesan Secretariat is composed of clergy and laity, men and women. The whole Secretariat is entrusted by the Bishop with the responsibility of promoting, developing and directing the Cursillo Movement in a diocese. The authority entrusted to the Secretariat is to embrace, study, and promote the Charism of the Movement. The Lay Director should always be a lay person responsible for the organization and methodology of the Movement. The Spiritual Advisor, always a priest, deacon or vowed religious, is responsible for matters concerning doctrine and conscience. Other Secretariat members include the Chairperson for the School of Leaders, Precursillo, Cursillo, and Postcursillo sections and a Treasurer and Secretary. All Secretariat members have voice and vote. The members of the Secretariat come from the School of Leaders. Their selection places them in a position to be of greater service to the Movement.
As committed leaders, dedicated to promoting and living the Foundational Charism ourselves, we have understood that Cursillo is not something that we do; it is something that we live simply because to live Cursillo is to live the Gospel.The membership of the Secretariat should be sufficiently small to serve in a climate of Group Reunion.
The Cursillistas who serve the Movement in the Secretariats and Schools of Leaders can best be described as keepers of the flame of the vision of the Founder, keeping it burning brightly as a beacon for all those whose paths are illuminated by its light.
SECRETARIAT MEMBERS
2023-2025 TERM OF OFFICE




Parishioner at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Elk Grove since 2003
Ministries/Community Service/Professional Background: Former Coordinator for the RCIA Program and Catholics Returning Home, Homebound Ministry, Parish Advocate for the Diocesan Tribunal, Past Chair of the Diocesan Pastoral Council, Former Board Member of Cristo Rey High School. Retired Litigation Paralegal and Nonprofit Development Consultant and Grant Writer.
Family Life: Married to Jerry Bowers with one son, daughter-in-law and 2 granddaughters.

Parishioner at SS Peter and Paul since 2014
Ministries/Community Service/Professional Background: Served on Last 3 Cursillo Teams, Bible study leader for 2 yrs; Cursillo Parish Rep. Have 2 culinary Degrees and Truck Driver for 19 yrs.
Family Life: Married to Jenny Williams for 18 yrs.

Parishioner at Divine Savior since 1996
Ministries/Community Service/Professional Background: Parish Pastoral Council member; Parish Welcoming Committee member; former CFF Catechist and Marriage Prep and Engage Encounter; Winter Sanctuary for the homeless. Works as a Call Center Representative
Family Life: Married to Ron Bauer for 28 years with 2 adult children.



Ministries/Community Service/Professional Background: Served as a music minister/cantor for 40 years; Catechist in the Catholics Returning Home ministry; Served in 2021 and 2022 women's weekend team; Asst. Rectora for the Women's 2023 weekend team; retired public school Math Teacher.
Family Life: Married to John for 35 years with three grown children.


A New Spiritual Director for Sacramento Cursillo
As we head into 2023 we all look ahead to the many exciting possibilities before us. One such news item that will give us momentum appeared in this month's Catholic Herald (Jan/Feb), related to our future leadership.
Bishop Soto has appointed Fr. Dean Marshall as the permanent Spiritual Director of our charism, something we haven't formally had for some time. Fr. Dean is wonderfully spiritual, has the passion to keep up with us and is very familiar with Sacramento Cursillo. He made his weekend a few years ago and has supported weekends along the way.
It would not be fair to ignore all of those Deacons and Priests who have stuck by us, volunteering their time in support of all the weekends and items being managed by the Secretariat. You all have been critical in where the Holy Spirit has led us. In particular, thank you, Deacons Dave, Mike, and Rommell and Fr. Tom from St Ignatius, who blessed us with beautiful instruction on several weekends.
Congratulations Fr. Dean... we are truly blessed to have you journey with us...ULTREYA!